The ART of HopeKids 2012

Pictures courtesy of Teacher Yung Sharing ART with our New Team of ULs @ Artease in Esplanade

A – A New Thing

See, I am doing a new thing! 
   Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? 
I am making a way in the wilderness 
   and streams in the wasteland.  - Isaiah 43:19

Don’t miss it but perceive the new thing that God is doing in your life.

Delegate ministry to others as ministry is not just our own. …. (the people I formed for myself  that they may proclaim my praise – Isaiah 43:21)

Bus are Life Groups, Bus Captains are mobile Life Group leaders.

Roles of Talent leaders  (TLs) is to “learn”.

Roles of Ownership Leaders (OLs)  is to “make a way in the wilderness & streams in the wasteland”
1. LGL (Life Group Leaders)
- Visit weekly to pray for kids/family
- Own 3-8 kids
- Multiply LGs as it reach 8 kids
2. UL (Unit Leaders)
- Coach LGLs for the above

Role of Staff to be active outside the office to pave the way

R – Relational

Be available to lead groups relationally.

As the group grows bigger, we have to grow smaller.

God sent His son not to establish a religion but for a new relationship with us.

All ULs to learn and read a leadership book a month.

Use technology, Twitter, Facebook etc.

T – Thankful Heart

Only way to grow not by our effort but by the spirit living in us.

Keep a prayer/gratitude journal and give thanks in all circumstance.

Use Apps.


Building Our Spiritual Legacy

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Just came back from planning for 2012 with Pastor Jeff and the leadership team at the D’Kranji Farm. The quiet time in there recapture for me a lot of reason why we do what we do. We are building God’s spiritual legacy to past to at least 3 generations. The two days reignite a certain passion I have within.

This video is special because it captures the dynamics of what it takes to make the dream possible; 1) The dedication of parents, 2) The purpose of our kids teachers and 3) The serving passion of our youth all working in collaboration.

We are grateful for the young minds and heart behind the production of this video for our recent Next Generation Service. I really like this. We all do as we are so a part of it in everything we do right now.


Start Starting Kids Praying

Doing something for the first time is terribly hard. But it gets easier the second time. And even easier the third and the fourth. Then in no time, it becomes second nature. It’s like that for kids learning to pray for the first time. There need to be a first time and here’s a ripple starting way to help them …

Step 1) Every Sunday look for kids to pray for and pray for them. You have to model loving to pray first.

Step 2) After praying ask “Do you want to pray for me”?

Step 3) If he says ‘yes’, guide them to a great praying time. If they say ‘no’, say “its okay, next time?”

Step 4) When next time comes, again pray for them before changing your script slightly and say ”Do you want to pray for me? I’ll help you?”

Helping kids be a minister isn’t natural but its possible when we are persistent.  So rise up to start kids praying and keep doing it until its second nature. You’ll just finding yourself having lots of fun starting more kids praying in your ministry.


7 Easy I-Love-You Habits For Parents

I am a parent of 12 years,  so I must be old enough to know a thing or two about habits!

Of all the habits I’ve developed (some proudly and some not) these are 7 of saying I love you to your child that I find is so easy to do that it can be easily tried and be made into solid habits that works for you.

You can start your habit forming project today and develop …

1. The habit of saying “I love you” regularly

2. The habit of hugging longer than 5 seconds.

3. The habit of enjoying being close without talking for not lesser than 5 minutes and see what happens.

4. The habit of bring them stuff they like that cost you close to nothing.

5. The habit of pouring them a cup of water(or ribena) to drink when they are doing homework.

6. The habit of looking into their eyes & smile everytime you walk past.

7. The habit of regularly praying with them and for them.

Habit #1 says I love you for kids who’s love language is words
Habit #2 says I love you for kids who’s love language is touch
Habit #3 says I love you for kids who’s love language is time
Habit #4 says I love you for kids who’s love language is gifts
Habit #5 says I love you for kids who’s love language is service
Habit #6 says I love you, accepts you and you have my full approval
Habit #7 says I love you and I care that ‘God loves you’ too

Note: This works for your spouse too (except that 4 & 5 will cost just a little bit more).

What do you think? Any other good and easy habit forming ideas how to say I love you?


How Often Do You Serve In Kids Ministry?

Every so often I will lurk outside Kidology.com. I like the Kidologist himself, Karl Bastian for all the fun he is made of and also kids ministry we can from him.

Well, today I was lurking (If you don’t want to be a lurker, being a member maybe worth it) and saw the poll on the front page which ask “How often do you serve in children’s ministry?” I selected my answer, submitted it and boy was I shocked by the outcome…
Why! so many people serves most weeks! 70% of the 1,500 who responded so far serves most weeks!!

Shocked because I was expecting more ‘once a month’ or ‘once every fortnight’ type of deal.

The result made me both happy and sad!

1) Happy that we aren’t the only ones with the commitment of serving most weeks.

2) Sad that the outcome may be because kids ministries are lacking vision, leadership and resource that those in it have no choice but serve most weeks.

What do you think? How often do you serve and why?


Kids Godly Transformer Series

Starting a new series of 6 lessons on Titus and the book of Titus in line with our adults series. The series explore transformational leadership featuring Paul’s leadership over Titus and Titus’ own leadership. This week’s Big Point: I am a Godly Transformer

Yeah baby, our kids can be Godly leaders in their environment (especially to younger kids). Yes they can lead beyond what we can imagine. Yes they can be the church today.

I’m so excited that our oldest kids aren’t consuming a service this week but will be visiting our younger kids services as volunteer leaders. It’s a brilliant idea by our star staff. I know it’ll work as this is the very idea proven to work by another level leader who made her kids volunteer in our younger kids services a regular feature in her discipleship plan. See such brilliant action leaders we have!

You cannot be anything less than jubilant when LOVE is made into pure action. Love it so much, pumped to the max and so so looking forward to tomorrow!

Bring your kids friends!


Walked into Vinyl Lucky

Was at an old LP record shop at Adelphi. The shop inside was organized, clean and I can tell kept with great attention. The LPs sold there were carefully cleaned and wrapped up. All of them cost a bomb that I could not find anything with a $30 budget. The same record I bought just a month ago for $7 in the discount bin of another shop can cost $170 here.

I realize there’s always much greater value in stuff we carefully take care of.

Didn’t stay long but had a great conversation with Boshari the owner of Vinyl Lucky at Adelphi about music and faith. We shared our love for music and favourite bands since young. We also shared about our faith where I learned very interesting things about his life as a Muslim and he did the same about mine as a Christian. I shared what’s different about Christianity and why I chose to go into it.

I left without buying anything but I gained a friend. I’m so glad I did because relationships are one of the most worthwhile things to take care of on earth. Keep taking care of your marriage, friendships or whatever are important relationships in your life.


Think Big, Act Small

Think Big?
We think big because between thinking big and thinking small, one is better. It’s common sense. Who wants small thinking? But the better may not be easier and that’s what makes thinking big so unusual.

Act Small?
We act small because between acting big and acting small, one gets you into trouble, the other just works great for everyone. Again its common sense but not easier to act on small things.  That is what makes acting small so unusual.

So thinking big and action small is common sense. But we do foolish things and always opt for easier.  So thinking small and acting big will always permeate space of our world even though there’s a better way.

Our aim is not to go there. We have Godly wisdom to do the opposite which is slightly harder to do.

- Stop believing small. Believe God in thinking every big thing he has in store for his people.
- Stop doing what is easy and start acting our common sense towards others.


Warm Fuzzy Feeling

Bought 2 old classic rock LP. Love playing it on my old Pioneer PL-61 Turntable. It gives me warm fuzzy feeling because it gives me good growing up memories when I listened to music.

Today spending the time at home with the family.

Mei Si cooked breakfast.

May Ann is preparing for her PSLE with mum.

Chern Han is doing his finger painting work. Just started with 2 prints.

What we do today in our homes created memories for people in the future. We just hope it’ll be of the warm and fuzzy type.


Kids Song To Hope

Chern Han, Elyse and Thaddeus singing a birthday song for Hope Church Singapore’s 20th birthday. Wasn’t there to see it LIVE but a shot like that really captures the essence of connection of the next generation with our present one.

Like this so many times!